Context allows you to talk or be in the same location with someone and spend time with them. For example, if a person starts talking to me at the airport about "flight details," it feels natural, and we can easily start a conversation.
That’s why all dating coaches teach men to start a conversation naturally, based on context, because it feels safe. I remember meeting a beautiful girl at the airport. I saw she was reading a book that I had also read. It was easy to start a conversation—just ask, 'How’s the book?’
Another great example comes from using a hookup app. After a few messages, a girl invited me to her place. I started to understand why girls are scared to visit men’s homes because I was also scared.
It didn’t feel natural at first, but my fucker instincts took over, and I went 😎
I knocked on the door, she opened it, and then moved toward the bathroom, saying, 'Come in and sit, I’m still in the shower. Give me 5 minutes.' I stepped inside and saw a two-room apartment. I went into the second room to make sure no one else was there. I swear, at that moment, I thought someone would jump out of the wardrobe, tie me to the radiator, and rape me 😂
I sat on the sofa near the bookshelves. As a former architect, I appreciated the beauty of the design. The place was decorated in a retro style with luxurious 80s furniture. I started to relax more and more.
While she was in the shower, I started looking at the books on the shelf, and at some point, I saw a very unique book that I had already read.
It was a book written by S.O. Khan-Magomedov about the famous Russian avant-garde architect
Ivan Leonidov.
This is a very rare book for a very specific domain, and I realized that anyone who owns this book on their bookshelf couldn’t possibly tie me to a radiator and rape me. 😀
When she got out of the shower, we had a good conversation, and after a few hours, we had good sex.
So, it was a story where a single context—a book—could build trust from zero to ten in a second.